“The critical key to all success is the understanding that you can have everything in life you want if you will just help enough other people get what they want.”        

-Zig Ziglar.

To always get more out of life, you have to give more and keep on giving.

The feeling of inadequacy makes for the inadequate supply of nourishment to self-concept. To make up for the feelings of inadequacy which trigger a poor self-concept, the individual becomes engrossed or consumed with self; selfishness becomes the order of life. Nothing raises the level of self-concept to an all-time high than adding value to the lives of others without asking, “What’s in it for me?” Spreading sunshine everywhere you go will light up your world and illuminate your mind, raising your level of consciousness. But you will be unable to add value to the lives of others until you recognize your own value.  And the level of value you create for others or the level of investment you make in others is determined by the quality of value you create in you or the quality of investment you’ve made in your personality.

The most powerful way to strengthen your success root or self-concept to withstand the test of time and to continually yield the fruit of excellence in every dimension of life is to live in unconditional love toward others by serving others; making a difference in the lives of others.



Timeless Gem

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About the Author


Udeme Archibong is a prolific writer, an astute communicator and a model of excellence. Her writings have made profound impact on thousands of lives around the world through her blog:, which has followings in over 70 countries in continents of the world.

She is a Self-Development Expert, who passionately works towards helping people maximize their destinies.

At some point, she was a motivational columnist, writing Success Recipe and Destiny Catalyst, for two Nigerian national newspapers, Vanguard and ThisDay, respectively. She is the initiator of the Revolution Series Seminars