• When you rationalize your anger and unhappiness you agonize in anger and unhappiness.
  • When you rehash the negative situation in your mind  you hatch negative condition in your life.
  • When you feel entitled to your anger you become entitled to misery.
  • Negative emotions do not change the situation rather it charges the situation with negativity.
  • When you make excuses for others you eradicate negative emotions from your life.
  • When you rid negative emotions from your mind, you reap positive conditions of life.
  • If you can do nothing about it. then do not worry about it.
  • If it is something a person cannot change. then don’t criticize rather sympathize.
  • Reinterpret events differently if you want to reinvent your life with a difference.
  • If only you know that “if only…” will get you nowhere rather “I can” and “I  will” will get you somewhere.



Timeless Gem

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About the Author


Udeme Archibong is a prolific writer, an astute communicator and a model of excellence. Her writings have made profound impact on thousands of lives around the world through her blog:, which has followings in over 70 countries in continents of the world.

She is a Self-Development Expert, who passionately works towards helping people maximize their destinies.

At some point, she was a motivational columnist, writing Success Recipe and Destiny Catalyst, for two Nigerian national newspapers, Vanguard and ThisDay, respectively. She is the initiator of the Revolution Series Seminars